Between Dussehra and Diwali: A Gentle Pause to Reflect, Reset & Reconnect

Today is Dussehra.

A festival that holds so much meaning — a reminder that light rises after darkness, that courage matters, and that sometimes, letting go is the most powerful thing we can do.

It’s one of those days that feels both symbolic and deeply personal. Because let’s face it — we all carry things we’re ready to release — old fears; that critical voice in our heads; the pressure to have it all together; the habit of putting ourselves last.

And maybe today isn’t about fighting or fixing. Maybe it’s just about noticing what’s been weighing us down and gently deciding we don’t need to carry it anymore.

With Diwali around the corner, this moment in between can offer something rare — a quieter kind of light; a pause; a chance to clear space not just in our homes, but in our hearts..

Letting Go — A Quiet Goodbye to What No Longer Feels Right

Diwali is just around the corner. There will be lights, food, guests, laughter — maybe a little chaos too — and all of it has its own beauty. But this stretch of days between Dussehra and Diwali has slowly become something sacred to me; a soft pause; a quiet reset.

Not the kind that comes with cleaning lists or last-minute errands, but the kind that happens inside.

It’s a chance to put down what no longer feels right — even if it’s just in small, invisible ways.
To close a tab in your mind.
To stop carrying someone else’s expectations.
To forgive yourself for not doing it all.
To let go of the pressure to show up perfectly — for everyone, all the time.

I used to enter Diwali completely drained. Smiling on the outside, but crashing on the inside.
Now, I try to slow down — to make space; to light myself up — gently — before I light up anything around me. Because letting go isn’t always loud or dramatic.

Sometimes, it’s just choosing a softer way. Sometimes, it’s sitting with what’s heavy, and deciding not to carry it forward.

Lighting Up — From the Inside Out

Diwali is a beautiful reminder that light can find its way into even the darkest corners. But before we light our homes, there’s something powerful about lighting up our hearts too — not with noise or performance, but with stillness, intention, and care.

Yes, there’s joy in the shopping and decorating, the gifts and gatherings. But what if we also made time to prepare in a different way?

To forgive ourselves for what we didn’t get quite right.
To release the quiet guilt we’ve been carrying.
To call someone we’ve been meaning to reach out to.
To create a soft, calm space — a corner that feels like a hug.
To do something just for ourselves, without feeling selfish.

This season, maybe we don’t need to do everything. Maybe it’s enough to do a few things with full presence.

Instead of asking, “Have I done enough?”;

Maybe we ask: Am I connected? Am I grounded? Am I open to joy?

Because sometimes, the light we’re searching for outside is already within us — waiting for a little space to shine.

7-Day Mini Reset Challenge: One Small Step Each Day

This year, I’m gifting myself 7 gentle days of soft resets — small, simple actions that help me reconnect with what truly matters.

If this speaks to you too, here’s an open invitation to breathe a little deeper before Diwali arrives — no pressure, no rules, just presence.

7-Day Mini Reset Challenge

Day                                             Reset Ritual

Day 1 (Dussehra) 

Let go of one emotional weight. Write it down, then tear it up or safely burn it.

Day 2

Declutter one small space — a drawer, a shelf, your purse, or your phone gallery.

Day 3 

Light a diya or candle and sit with it in silence for 10 minutes. Let it calm you.

Day 4 

Reach out to someone — a friend, a relative, or even yourself in your journal.

Day 5 

Gift yourself 30 minutes of guilt-free time. Do something just for you.

Day 6 

Write down 3 things you’re deeply grateful for right now — no matter how small.

Day 7 (Diwali Eve)    

Set an intention: a word or feeling you want to carry into Diwali. Write it down and place it where you’ll see it.

This is not about perfection — if you miss a day, it’s completely okay. It’s about slowing down, being present, and making space for peace before the celebrations begin.

My Final Thought

Between the fire of Dussehra and the glow of Diwali, there’s a quiet space — full of healing, if we allow it.

You don’t have to do it all.
You don’t have to feel festive every moment.
You don’t have to chase some picture-perfect version of celebration.

You just have to stay true to yourself.
Let go where you can.
And light up — gently.

We’re all carrying so much — responsibilities, expectations, memories, worries.
But this season, this pause between Dussehra and Diwali, reminds us:

You are allowed to rest.
You are allowed to reset.
You are allowed to enter Diwali with softness, not just sparkle.

So light your diyas, but also light your heart.
Let go. Then glow.

Wishing you a Diwali that feels soft, meaningful, and truly yours — with less pressure and more peace, less noise and more light, inside and out.

I’d love to hear from you:

What are you letting go of this year? Which day of the 7-day reset speaks to you the most?

Share your thoughts below — your words might light up someone else’s journey too.

Stay Blessed, Be Happy..!! 😊

With love,

Preeti

Makar Sankranti: The Fascinating Festival Of The Harvest

In today's world, there is so much of pressure and monotony in everyone's life that once in a while we all want to escape from it, isn’t it?.  And what’s the better way to do so other than celebrating festivals?  Whether it is celebrated religiously or secularly, festivals are always joyful occasion which adds color to the other dull life, and when it comes to India then it is not just arbitrarily called the land of festivals.  In India, there are about 22 major languages and more than 1000 minor languages and dialects.  It is a multi-cultural country which reflects in the festivals of India, too.  With so much diversity embedded within one culture, it is quite easy to understand why India is known as a “Land of Festivals”.

Flying kites in the sky

In every 15 days, there is a celebration of festivals here in India; some are celebrated in the whole country while others are celebrated only in some part of the country.  The numerous and diverse festivals that are held throughout the year offer a unique way of seeing Indian culture at its best.  In India, there are few festivals that are celebrated on the same day, but in different ways and one of such festival is “Makar Sankranti.”

Makar Sankranti is one of the major and fascinating festivals that is associated with the harvest and is celebrated with a lot of zeal.  This festival is famous for its sesame sweets and kite flying.  On this day, the sun enters the zodiac of Capricorn (Makara in Hindi).  Hence the word 'Makar' is in the name.  And the other word in the name, 'Sankranti,' means the movement of the sun from one to another zodiac sign. Therefore, the name of the festival means the “movement of the sun into Capricorn.”  It is believed that after this transition of the sun, the days grow longer and nights become shorter till the next equinox.

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Makar Sankranti is celebrated with great pomp and gaiety, and show across varied states in myriad ways.  This festival is celebrated in UP with the name of “Khicharai or Makar Sankranti;” in Punjab, it is referred as “Maghi”; in Gujarat it is known as “Uttarayan;” in Assam, it is called as Bihu;” in southern part of India, it is called as “Pongal.  While in the rest parts of the country including Maharashtra, UP, Bihar, Rajasthan, and Bengal this festival is known as Makar Sankranti.

Khicharai:

Sankranti is popularly known as Khicharai in UP.  People of this part celebrate this festival by following the ritual of taking a dip in the holy rivers.  Lakhs of devotees take bath in the sacred river on this occasion.  They consider this ritual very auspicious for the well-being of human beings.  It is believed that by taking the holy bath on this day, people’s sins are washed away and they are then sanctified.  Fairs are also held on this occasion.  As the name of the festival, the most prominent thing is the food “Khichdi”(this is a mix of rice with different kinds of lentils) which is served with many condiments like different kinds of ‘bhartas’ (mash vegetable with spices), pickles, lavish dollops of ghee (clarified butter), papad (Papadum) and raita (Indian condiment).

Maghi:

Maghi is one of the most awaited festivals of Punjab and it is one of the seasonal gatherings of the Sikhs.  They celebrate this festival by performing religious rituals in all the Sikh Gurudwaras (temple).  People take a dip in the holy rivers.  Fairs are conducted at many places on Maghi.  In some parts of Punjab, it is also traditional to eat khichdi, consume jaggery and raw sugarcane.  There is another festival known as Lohri which falls a day before “Makar Sankranti in north India, particularly popular in the Punjab region.  Lohri is celebrated by lightening a bonfire in open field or courtyard of houses.  During this winter festival, the lighting of a bonfire is an ancient tradition.

Uttarayan:

Among numerous festivals in Gujarat, Uttarayan is considered as one of the biggest and grandest festivals.  People celebrate this day by flying kites in the sky.  They gather together in field, open space, and on the rooftops and terrace of houses to fly kites.  In fact, many cities in Gujarat organize kite competition in which people cut the string of the nearby “kite-flyers” and bring their kites down.  People enjoy competing with each other.  During the festival, special foods such tilli ke laddoos (sweets made from sesame seeds), chikkis (sweets made from groundnuts and jaggery), and jalebis (sweets) are distributed among all.

Pongal:

Pongal is the festival which is celebrated mostly in the southern part of India.  The term “Pongal” is derived from Tamil word which means “to boil”.  On this occasion, rice is boiled in milk and then it is symbolically served to God as a means of showing gratitude.  Following that, the boiled rice is served to cow and then to all the family members.  Some of the customs which are a must on this festival are cleaning the house and decorating them with Kolams, and wearing new clothes.  During this festival celebration, people get themselves involved in eating sugar canes, dancing, exchanging gifts, and buffalo-taming contests.

Magh Bihu:

Magh Bihu, also known as Bhogali Bihu, is the second largest festival of Assam.  The word “Bhogali” is derived from the root Bhog which means “enjoying the food.”  On this day, people of Assam make cakes of rice and sweets of coconut.  The festival is marked by a bonfire.  Community feast and cultural programmes are observed all throughout the night.  Numerous traditional sports such as buffalo-fight, bird-fight (cock, hen, nightingale etc), and egg-fight are played in villages throughout the state for enjoyment.  Enormous crowds gather around these venues to enjoy the sport.  There is festivity all around.

Furthermore, there are few things that are not only limited to particular states only.  Be it having khichdi or tilgur, flying kites.  The frolic and fun that accompanies kite flying make it a quite popular tradition even today throughout India.  Nobody gets exhausted by flying kites from dawn to dusk.  The entire sky becomes so colorful with multi-colored kites of several shapes and sizes.  Foods like khichdi, til (sesame), gur (jaggery), and groundnut are added to the extensive menu.  As a token of goodwill, these sweets are usually accompanied by the saying, "Til-gur ghya aani god god bola", which means “have Tilgur and talk sweetly.” Since this festival falls in winter, eating tilgur is regarded beneficial to health as they are warm foods.

So this is how Makar Sankranti is celebrated throughout the country.  On this day, all around, there is an atmosphere of merriment and an air of festivities.  The harmony of different traditions and cultures is best experienced during festivals in India.

Wishing you all a very happy “Makar Sankranti.”  May this festival fill your home with happiness and positivity.

Stay Blessed, Be Happy...!! :-)

Preeti